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I Rescue Moms by teaching them how to get their little ones to sleep.

If your baby is around four weeks old or more, and If your baby is around four weeks old or more, and they’re well above their birth weight, but you’re having trouble getting them to burp—try using a bit more firmness when burping. Many parents worry about being too rough, which is totally understandable! But sometimes, a gentle pat just isn’t enough. You may need to apply a little more pressure (within reason!) to help get that stubborn burp out. Of course, always be gentle and safe—don’t hurt your baby—but don’t be afraid to be a bit more purposeful with your technique. 

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Timeouts don’t have to be a big, scary punishmen Timeouts don’t have to be a big, scary punishment—they’re just a little reset button for your toddler! The key is consistency and keeping it simple.

Start early! If your little one is around 1 and needs a timeout, keep it short—just one minute for each year of age (so, 1 year old = 1 minute, 2 years old = 2 minutes, and so on). But here’s the most important part: make sure they understand why they’re in timeout.

When it’s over, bring them in for a little chat. Ask if they know why they had a timeout, explain why the behavior wasn’t okay, and guide them to apologize. Then—and this is the best part—end on a positive note! A simple “Thank you for listening. I love you.” and a hug helps them feel safe and loved, even after discipline.

Timeouts aren’t about punishment—they’re about teaching. And with a little love and patience, they can actually bring you closer!

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Is Your Baby Eating Too Much? Or Not Enough? Let’s Find Out!

Your little one is growing fast in those first three months! One day, they’re taking just 1 oz per feed, and before you know it, they’re guzzling 4 oz like a pro. But how do you know if they’re getting the right amount?

Here’s the deal: Babies’ tummies are still tiny, and just because they fuss or cry doesn’t always mean they need more food. So how much is just right?

✨ Quick Formula:
Take your baby’s weight (in pounds) and multiply it by 2.5—that’s the total ounces they should get in 24 hours. Then, divide that by the number of feeds per day to get an estimate per bottle.

🔹 Example:
An 8 lb baby → 8 × 2.5 = 20 oz per day
If they eat 8 times a day → 20 ÷ 8 = ~2.5 oz per feed

If your baby is draining the bottle every time and getting hungry before 2 hours, try adding just 0.5 oz more per feed.

And remember, a feeding should take about 20 minutes, including burping breaks! Rushing through feeds can lead to tummy discomfort, so make sure to burp as needed to keep that little belly happy. ❤️
 
Baby still fussy but eating the right amount? It could be something else going on like reflux, gas, a possible allergy, or over tiredness. 

Try these things and if it still didn't help, contact a professional like your pediatrician or newborn care specialist. 

1. Pace feeding 
2. Burping after every ounce. 
3. A solid probiotic.
4. Find an appropriate schedule for your little one so they are getting the proper amount of sleep. 
5. Tummy massages. 
6. Natural aids like gripe water, colic calm, or mylicon for gas. 

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Here’s some mind-blowing biology for you! 🤯 Here’s some mind-blowing biology for you! 🤯

When a baby breastfeeds, their saliva actually gets “sucked back” into the mother’s body through the nipple while nursing (thanks to the vacuum they create!).

If the baby is sick, their saliva carries chemical signals—like bacteria, viruses, or other pathogens—that the mom’s body detects. This triggers the mother’s immune system to produce specific antibodies and immune-boosting factors in her breast milk.

The result? The milk becomes custom-made medicine, delivering exactly what the baby needs to fight off illness and recover faster.

It’s a genius feedback loop: baby tells mom what’s wrong, and mom’s body adjusts to help. Nature really thought of everything! 🛡️🤱 

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🔑 Pumping Hack: Remeasure Your Nipples! 🔑 D 🔑 Pumping Hack: Remeasure Your Nipples! 🔑

Did you know your nipple size can change throughout your breastfeeding journey? Engorgement, pumping habits, and milk supply shifts can all affect it, so regularly checking your flange size is a must! Here’s why:

✨ Why It Matters:
✔️ The right flange size ensures maximum milk output 🍼
✔️ Prevents nipple pain, rubbing, or damage
✔️ Keeps ducts open to avoid clogs or mastitis
✔️ Helps maintain or boost your milk supply

💡 How to Measure:
1️⃣ Measure the diameter of your nipple (not the areola).
2️⃣ Add 2-3mm to find your ideal flange size (e.g., 17mm nipple = 19-20mm flange).
3️⃣ Recheck every few months or when pumping feels off!

A perfect fit = better pumping sessions and more milk! 💪💕
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From Wake Windows to a Schedule: Why Things Change From Wake Windows to a Schedule: Why Things Change Around 4 Months 💤

In the newborn days, wake windows were EVERYTHING. But around 4 months, your baby’s sleep game levels up, and it’s time to shift gears:

✔️ Circadian Rhythm Kicks In: Your baby’s internal clock starts following a 24-hour pattern, so sleep becomes more predictable.
✔️ Longer Awake Times: Those short wake windows stretch to 1.5–2 hours, making a set schedule feel more natural.
✔️ Fewer Naps: Most babies drop from 4–5 catnaps to 3 more structured naps.
✔️ Sleep Cycles Mature: A schedule helps them anticipate sleep times and regulate their little bodies.

You’re not ditching wake windows completely (flexibility is key!), but the mix of structure + rhythms = a happier, more rested baby… and parent! 💖

✨ Did you stick to wake windows, switch to a schedule, or do a bit of both? Drop your sleep journey below! ⬇️ 

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Baby sleep cycles are longer at night than during Baby sleep cycles are longer at night than during the day!

The most restorative and deepest sleep happens at night, typically peaking between 7–8 PM when your little one goes down for the night and lasting until around midnight. After this, sleep becomes lighter, especially by 3 AM, which is why you may notice more frequent wake-ups—particularly around that 5 AM mark!

If your baby has regained their birth weight and is feeding well during the day, consider skipping the dream feed to see if they can stretch their sleep longer than you expected.

Not only is this the deepest sleep, but it’s also an ideal time to give their hardworking tummies a break from digesting all that milk they consume throughout the day! 
 
***However, if you are a parent who likes to dream feed because you like to get a good night stretch when you go to bed, I totally get it! Dream feeds can definitely be beneficial! Different methods work for different families! 

You got this mama! 💪 

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Pro Tip! If your baby wakes up just a few minute Pro Tip! 

If your baby wakes up just a few minutes after falling asleep and it’s not because of a burp or diaper issue, but they’re clearly still tired, try offering a few small sips of milk while they’re in bed. Sometimes that tiny top-up is all they need to drift into a deep sleep.

If they’re drinking more than just a little, it’s a sign they might actually be hungry. In that case, take them out, give them a proper feed, burp them, and then settle them back to bed. Happy snoozing! 

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Swaddling can be a great way to soothe your newbor Swaddling can be a great way to soothe your newborn, but knowing when and how to stop is important for their safety. Here’s what you need to know:

When to Stop Swaddling
	•	Newborn Stage (0–8 weeks): Swaddling is safe and effective for calming your baby and reducing their Moro (startle) reflex.
	•	Around 2–4 months: Most babies start showing signs of rolling over during this time. Stop swaddling as soon as they can roll to avoid suffocation risks if they flip onto their tummy.

Transitioning Away from Swaddling

If your baby still struggles with their Moro reflex but is ready to move on from swaddling, consider using a transitional product:
	•	Magic Merlin Suit: A cozy option that helps calm the startle reflex while allowing more freedom. However, once your baby starts rolling while wearing the Merlin, it’s time to stop using it.
	•	Zipadee-Zip: This is a great choice for transitioning from a swaddle, as it gives babies a sense of security while still allowing them to move their arms and legs freely.

Signs It’s Time to Stop Swaddling or Transition
	•	Your baby breaks free from the swaddle frequently.
	•	They attempt to roll onto their tummy or side.
	•	They seem frustrated or more active in the swaddle.

Tips for Transitioning
	•	Start with one arm out of the swaddle for a few nights to ease the adjustment.
	•	Gradually switch to a sleep sack or transitional product to maintain comfort and warmth.

By 3–4 months, most babies are ready to sleep without swaddling. Keep an eye on their developmental cues and prioritize safe sleep practices! 

You got this mama! 💪 

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If your little one is fighting sleep for an hour o If your little one is fighting sleep for an hour or more, you can try a couple variations of a method called The Delayed Bedtime Method. 

The Delayed Bedtime Method helps toddlers fall asleep by temporarily setting bedtime later, closer to when they naturally feel tired. Once they’re consistently falling asleep at this later time, you gradually move bedtime earlier by 15-minute increments every few days until you reach the desired time.

Delayed Method 1: 
	1.	Start with their current natural sleep time, even if it’s late.
	2.	Create a calming bedtime routine to help them relax.
	3.	Once they fall asleep easily at the later bedtime, shift it earlier gradually (10-15 mins) every few days until you are back to original bedtime. 

This method works because it aligns with their internal clock, reduces bedtime struggles, and helps establish a consistent sleep routine.

Delayed Method 2 (starting at regular bedtime):

	1.	Start their bedtime routine at their same regular time. 
	2.	When they fight it, take them out of the crib, into light, and let them play. 
	3.	Once you see tired signs, go into their room and try bedtime again.
 4.  Make note of their tired time, and make this their new bedtime the next night. 
  5.  Assess how they do the next night and adjust as needed. 

You got this mama!!! 💪 

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Caption: Tired of waking up every 3-4 hours? 💤 Caption:
Tired of waking up every 3-4 hours? 💤 If your baby is at least 4 weeks old, back to birth weight, and thriving, it might be time for you to get a longer stretch of sleep! 🙌

💤 Want a longer nighttime stretch? Here’s how:

1️⃣ Limit daytime sleep:
Don’t let naps go over 2 hours, especially if your baby takes multiple naps. Too much daytime sleep can steal from nighttime rest!

2️⃣ Focus on full feeds:
Make sure your baby is getting full feeds during the day.
👉 Pro tip: Multiply baby’s weight (in lbs) by 2.5, then divide by the number of daily feeds. For example:
A 10lb baby needs ~25oz/day. If they eat 7 times a day, each bottle should be ~3.5oz. So make 4 oz bottles during the day and see how they do! 
⚡ If they’re draining bottles fast or getting hungry before 3 hours, add 0.5-1oz to their bottle!

🍼 Bonus sleep tip by age:
➡️ 6-12 weeks: Keep daytime sleep to 5 hours or less.
➡️ 4-6 months: Aim for 4 hours or less of daytime sleep.

Consistency is key, mama—you’ve got this! 💪✨ Ready to try it out tonight?

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Why is Baby Suddenly Waking After Being Put Down? Why is Baby Suddenly Waking After Being Put Down? 🤔

Does your little one usually snooze for 5–6 hours but is suddenly waking up? Don’t worry, this is common—and often due to one of two things:

1️⃣ A trapped burp 🍼
Pick them up and gently burp them. Sometimes, that’s all they need to settle back down.

2️⃣ A hungry tummy 🍴
If they don’t burp or still seem fussy, try offering an ounce or two of milk. They might be going through a growth spurt and need a little extra fuel.

Babies grow and change so quickly—sometimes they just need a bit more love (or milk!) during these moments. 💕

What are your go-to tips for helping baby settle? Share below! 👇 

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